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The Guest Room Problem No One Talks About (And How to Fix It)

  • Writer: Sarah Bowman
    Sarah Bowman
  • Nov 18
  • 5 min read
Gray upholstered bed with geometric wallpaper, black nightstands with brass lamps, framed botanical art, layered pillows and colorful runner
Here's what happens when you commit to a bold wallpaper choice: the room becomes unforgettable. Floating nightstands free up floor space, and those botanical prints against the geometric pattern? That's the kind of layering that makes a guest room feel considered, not cookie-cutter.

With Thanksgiving next week, you might be realizing that guests are arriving in a few days and your "guest room" is actually a storage room with a bed shoved in the corner.


Or worse: you've got a perfectly decorated guest room that looks magazine-ready but feels about as welcoming as a hotel lobby.


Here's the thing about hosting for Thanksgiving: the turkey gets all the attention, but it's the guest room that determines whether your visitors actually feel welcome in your home.


The truth is, most guest rooms fall into one of two camps. They're either neglected afterthoughts or over-styled spaces that feel untouchable. Neither one makes your guests feel genuinely welcome.


A good guest room should do more than provide a place to sleep. It should make people feel cared for without making them feel like they're intruding on your life.


What Your Guest Room Actually Needs

A couple of years ago I wrote about designing the perfect guest room for Smyrna Vinings Lifestyle magazine, and the response told me something important: people want their guests to feel comfortable, but they don't know where to start.


Here's what actually matters.


The Bed (Obviously)

This one isn't negotiable. If you're going to invest anywhere, invest here.


A good mattress and quality bedding will do more for your guests' experience than any decorative pillow arrangement. Save the premium bedding brands for your own room if budget is tight. Brands like Parachute, Brooklinen, and Frontgate offer excellent quality without the luxury price tag.


And please: fluffy pillows, extra blankets, and blackout curtains. These aren't extras. They're basics.

White guest room bed with coral floral pillow and blue textured pillows, navy tiered table lamp on white nightstand, window with natural light
Layered textures and a bold coral accent pillow create personality in this guest room. The navy tiered lamp adds sculptural interest without overwhelming the serene palette.

The Lighting Question

Overhead lighting in a guest room is a design cop-out.


Your guests need options. Bedside lamps with switches near the door. Sconces on both sides of the bed to free up nightstand space. Task lighting if there's a work area. Layered lighting gives people control over their environment, which is what you want when you're sleeping in someone else's home.


Storage That Actually Works

Nothing says "we never have guests" like a closet stuffed with your off-season clothes.


Clear out a few dresser drawers. Make space in the closet for hanging clothes. If you need storage for your own things, use under-bed containers. Your guests shouldn't have to live out of a suitcase on the floor for a weekend visit.


For small rooms, floating nightstands and vertical storage (hooks, shelves) can help maximize space without making the room feel cramped.


The Details That Make People Feel Human

A carafe of water and a glass on the nightstand.


Charging stations or power strips on both sides of the bed (because we all travel with too many devices now).

A full-length mirror.


Fresh flowers or a plant.


Hooks or a luggage rack so suitcases don't end up on the floor.


These aren't fancy touches. They're the things that make people feel like you actually thought about their comfort.

A bench at the foot of the bed isn't just decorative—it's where your guests can actually unpack without living out of a suitcase. Add a plant for visual interest and you've given them a space that feels intentional and welcoming.
A bench at the foot of the bed isn't just decorative—it's where your guests can actually unpack without living out of a suitcase. Add a plant for visual interest and you've given them a space that feels intentional and welcoming.

The Color Choice That Changes Everything

Color sets the emotional tone of a room, and guest rooms are no exception.


Warm, darker colors create coziness. Light, organic tones feel fresh and energizing. The key is choosing colors that complement the rest of your home while creating a sense of calm.


This is also where you can take risks. Guest rooms are perfect for experimenting with trends like color drenching (painting walls, trim, and ceilings the same color) or wallpapering the ceiling. Your guests will remember a room with personality far more than they'll remember a safe, beige box.


What About the Bathroom?

Woman at custom wood bathroom vanity with studded frame mirror, polished nickel sconces and faucet, vintage runner rug
A custom vanity with thoughtful details makes getting ready feel like an experience. Notice the studded mirror frame, quality sconces, and that polished nickel faucet (no chrome in sight).

If your guest room has a connected bathroom, treat it like a hotel would.


Place fresh towels on the bed when guests arrive. Make sure there are hooks or bars for hanging towels. Put out a clean bath mat, a lidded trash can, and basic toiletries (soap, shampoo, lotion).


Small gestures like these communicate that you planned for their arrival instead of scrambling at the last minute.


The Art of Personal Touches

Art isn't just decoration. It's communication.


Frame things that matter: children's drawings, favorite photographs, pages from art books. The goal isn't to fill wall space. It's to give your guests something to connect with, something that tells them who you are.


A guest room that feels too generic can be as uncomfortable as one that feels too personal. Finding the balance is the entire point.


When Space Is Limited

Not everyone has a dedicated guest room, and that's fine.


A daybed with a trundle can serve as seating during the day and sleep two at night. A well-designed multipurpose room (office, den, flex space) can accommodate guests without sacrificing everyday function.


The key is being intentional about what you include. A few thoughtful pieces beat a room full of furniture that doesn't quite work.


Special Considerations for Different Guests

Elderly relatives need accessible layouts, good lighting, and minimal tripping hazards.


Families with children might need space for a pack and play or twin air mattresses, plus some basic childproofing.

Business travelers appreciate a work area with good task lighting and easy access to outlets.


The perfect guest room isn't one-size-fits-all. It adapts to the people using it.


The Budget Reality

You don't need to spend a fortune to create a welcoming guest room.


Facebook Marketplace is full of quality foundational furniture. Thrift stores and antique malls often have unique pieces that add character without the retail markup. Invest where it matters (the bed) and get creative everywhere else.


Rattan nightstand with white table lamp and neutral vases against cream and tan spotted wallpaper in guest bedroom
Wallpaper in a guest room isn't risky—it's memorable. This subtle spotted pattern adds personality without overwhelming the space, while the rattan nightstand keeps things warm and approachable.

What Makes a Guest Room Actually Work

A guest room should feel like an extension of your home, not a separate entity that exists in a vacuum.


Balance personal style with function. Create a space that feels intentional without feeling sterile. Give your guests the tools they need to be comfortable: good sleep, good lighting, and the sense that you thought about their needs before they arrived.

For more detailed guidance on creating a guest room that works, read my full article on designing the perfect guest room in Smyrna Vinings Lifestyle magazine.


The goal isn't perfection. It's thoughtfulness. And that's something any guest room can achieve.


Ready to create a home that works for both you and your guests? Whether you're designing a dedicated guest suite or refreshing a multipurpose space, I'd love to help you find the right balance of style and function. Let's talk.


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